Moving to Assisted Living: What to Keep and What to Donate

March 21, 2016

Seniors have often acquired quite a few material possessions. These can become a burden when an older individual moves into an assisted living community or memory care apartment. Here is some information for caregivers helping seniors sort items to keep or donate:

Start with Must-Have Items

While many people couldn’t tell you which items they are ready to donate, they likely have a few they know they want to keep. For example, if you’re helping your parents move, they may have a box of mementos they’ll insist come along. Have your older loved one sit down and list the top items they want to keep. This will give you a good idea of where to start when it comes to sorting out the rest.

 

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Then, Move to Practical Needs

 

You’ve likely already toured the assisted living community where the senior will be living. If you haven’t, do so. This will offer insight into what amenities the community already provides. Some include furniture with the apartment; however, most are sparsely furnished and encourage new residents to bring their items. It’s a good idea to list what the seniors need to get so you can quickly sort through their possessions.

Will the community have a kitchen the seniors can use? Does the older person plan on cooking with those pots and pans they claim must come along? You can be a voice of reason when debating which items should be donated. Donate it if the senior isn’t likely to use something. This will save space in the moving truck and help the older person keep their new place uncluttered and, therefore, safer. Don’t forget to go through the pantry and fridge too. Some senior living communities offer full-service meals, and residents don’t need to bring much food. Others feature small kitchenettes in the apartments so older people can do some cooking. Keep this in mind when noting what foods to donate, toss, or bring along.

 

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Go Slowly

Going through belongings can be stressful and time-consuming, especially if you are helping a senior who has dementia or Alzheimer’s disease. Don’t attempt to do it all in one day. Instead, try sorting through belongings room by room over the course of several weeks or, if possible, months. Both you and your senior loved one will be less stressed this way, and you can allow the person some time to consider what material items are really important and should be kept when downsizing.

Donate any unwanted items to charity or have family and friends look through them first. This way, some things like furniture, pots, and pans will go to people the senior knows who will take good care of them. Plus, you can start the journey of new family heirlooms!

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